I understand how you feel about it, Marie, but you are also quite young and some of us "old ladies" just see things in a different light. Perhaps this also has something to do with the fact that most of us live in "middle America" and pretty much find that type of behavior, in general, to be bothersome on several levels. It just reeks of immaturity -- and, speaking for myself, if there's one thing I find completely and absolutely NOT sexy, it's immaturity.

I may be wrong but I think one of the reasons Colin Farrell -- who was supposed to be the next big thing -- sort of bombed over here was because people found his behavior rather disgusting. Personally, I think he's actually a pretty good actor, but when I see him, I just think, "ugh."

Lynn