N'ro, it seems that you have THE way of putting things! lol

I'm an almost 37 years old mother, married almost 6 years, with him 9. I work full time, take everything very seriously, maybe too much. I don't go to church anymore, but used to. I can relate to what many of you are saying.

But I LOVE going to clubs. Granted, i changed scenes and i don't go as often since going alone is boring and my friends are all the same situation as me. I don't drink much, because of diabetes and because my thing is dancing, not drinking.

I've never been one to bring a guy home (i'm not what guys are looking for in a bar, physically speaking, never was), but i've been around before i met hubby. Do I miss those days? Sure as hell! But back then, i was dreaming of a family, which i now have.

I think our lad is a real guy. The type that loves all the attention he's getting form his "fame" and let's face it ladies, he would have loads of it even if he had become a lawyer. He's georgous, sexy and flirty whatever job he does.

I've said it before, why would he settle down? He can have it all! All meaning whatever everyguy would die for: fame, fortune and extemely good looks! lol

I don't think i'm immature because i love going to clubs and i don't think he is BECAUSE he's going to clubs, but that doesn't mean he's not immature! If he likes going there, if he likes flirting and bringing home a different beautiful lady everynight, well, its his thing! and even if in my book that makes him a bad boy if he's not cheating on anyone or strigning along some poor gal totally enamoured by him, nothing wrong there. He just doesn't share the same lifestyle and values as most of us, that's it, just that.

Sincerely, i cannot say that my lifestyle is better than anyone's, the "norm" isn't necessarily what's good for everyone.

Isabelle

p.s. Personally, i loveeeeeeeeeeeeee a bad boy... and to me, that video precisely showed that. I just might get back on the wagon!
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