ok you kinda of did dismiss it..but clearly you dont think you did..and i will leave that at that.

Yes i agree that if you have a problem with something that generally you should talk to them privately..but in this instance i felt it necesary to explain myself to everyone..so they knew why i was so off on my last post.

Plus i know that peoples perceptions change as they age (i am not altogether stupid..although i suppose that is debatable) it is not something i need someone to explain to me.

However, my opinion will not change on the fact that i dont think there is anything wrong with going to a club. Yes when i am older i may not want to go to a club..that may certainly change..but the fact that i dont think there is anything wrong with going to a club at that age will not change...once i form an opinion on something..thats that..my minds made up! I aint going to change it..ever...well almost ever.

I am scottish and i am stubourn (and clearly sometimes i have problems spelling things..i dont think that is how you spell stubourn is it..och well) and thats about it!