So sorry about your friend, Terri -- she sounds like she was an interesting and fun person (once you got to know her). It's a shame, sometimes, that we don't look past first impressions -- I've gotten to know people who, on first introduction, I didn't much care for but, after being around them more, I discovered the "real" -- and very likable --  person. However, I do have to say that the opposite has been true, too -- people who I've really liked have ended up showing a side I could barely tolerate. That's life, I guess -- it just proves that it's what's inside that counts.

Lynn