Does it count as crashing if your father or brother bring a group of people to your house/event without telling you first? My father used to do this all the time, but now he's out lived most of his friends. So now my brother is dragging his weird friends over to my house. Supposedly he clears it all before hand with my husband, but I'm the one cooking and no one bothers to tell me until they arrive and I'm in my PJs and have no food in the house.
Ida